After making that post and witnessing the response, it got me thinking more about pornography... it seems people LIKE to look at photos of other people having sex, performing a sexual act, or locked in a sexual embrace. And why not?
When I stopped viewing explicit images from what could perhaps be considered an anti-porn perspective, I realised something.
Porn can be pretty.
I'm not talking about staged porn, I'm not talking about the images of a woman throwing looking directly at the camera, a look of fake pleasure on her place while a man does something to her that would be unlikely to provide any feel-good sexual stimulation for her. I'm not talking about corny storyline porn, not 'I am here to fix your blocked drain, and look at you, standing there in your see through negligee, while I stand here in my tight pants, and suggest that perhaps rather than unblocking your drain I can plug a part of your anatomy with a part of my anatomy, all while shitty music plays in the background' porn.
Where was I? Oh yea, porn can be pretty!
I figure that porn is a form of art... and all art is subjective... What *I* think makes good art, might be completely different from what you consider to be good art. You might like the staged-for-the-camera type of porn, while I may (and do) prefer a less explicit, but equally as sexual type of porn.
And that is what leads me to my argument that porn can be pretty. I like a more 'emotional' basis to porn... a more 'intimate' type of porn, I guess you could say. I can see a photo of a scene in a porn movie, of a man going down on a woman, and not feel sexually affected by it, but if I look at a more 'natural' explicit image of a man going down on a woman, it might just make me as horny as hell.
Porn and explicit images don't need to be all about the pussy and the cock. I would far sooner see a woman riding a man, than see the woman positioned at a certain angle so the cock is visible. I don't need to SEE the cock, to know that it is inside the woman.
It's the same with oral sex, I don't need to see the woman's splayed pussy with a tongue touching it at an angle that looks good on the camera... that's not what oral is. Oral is a face buried in a pussy, or at least a photo taken from an angle that looks natural... the tongue between the folds, NOT something that looks good on camera. I have a brain, I have an imagination, I can work out for myself what that man or woman's tongue is doing to the other woman
I know I'm not the only person to feel this way about porn, but at the same time I am not saying that there is anything wrong with liking that more explicit, staged type of pornography & pornographical images. It is all subjective, it is all individual, it is all about the indivduals preferences, turn ons and turn offs.
Before I go off on a tangent, I will finish up here... but not before sharing a few examples of the type of 'natural' 'intimate' porn-type images *I* quite like!
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| this image I like mostly because of the boobs... but also because of the intimate nature of the kiss and embrace |
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| this is another I like because it is natural... I love the way the mman is holding her, the way the woman is supporting herself |
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| I love the way she's holding onto his hair for dear life... the way her head is thrown back... the fact you can't see his tongue |
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| Again, you can't see any genitalia, hell, you can't even see any boobs, but you know something VERY sexy is going on between those women... |
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| This image isn't even explicit in nature, but I love the intimacy between the women... I also like the feeling of anticipation it induces. You just know they are in for a weekend of sex, sex and more sex. |
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| Again, this image isn't explicit, but it is intimate... it makes me think of the relationship I have with my wife, the intimacy we share... |
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| Let's just state now that I find photos of women kissing, beautiful. |
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| Again it is the anticipation, the intimacy... |
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| Is she waiting for her lover to climb on board? Is she masturbating? I love the mystery... |
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| Sometimes a little pussy on display can be a very good thing! I love that the redhead (and presumably the other woman) has a 'real' body... she has curves, she has boobs, she has hips and a waist... AND SHE ISN'T SHAVED! |
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| No genitalia on view, but looking at this picture I can feel *exactly* what he is doing to her |
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| Sweet sweet girly sex... as you may be able to tell, it is a favourite of mine |
I love girl!sex. It's awesome. And I loved seeing a bit o' bush! There needs to be more of that in porn and erotic imagery, and I think it's making a slow comeback. Probably because the thrill of the (rare) shaved pussy from the past turned into something...normal. So now it's become thrilling to see the rare unshaven pussy. *grins*
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